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She Comes First

She Comes First is the best-selling sex advice book of the last decade and has been translated into more than a dozen languages.

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She Comes First

“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”

Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”

As women everywhere will attest, men are “ill-cliterate.” Most guys know more about what’s under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn’t just foreplay, it’s coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again. Can you say “viva la vulva”?

Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.

About The Author

Ian Kerner is a sex counselor and psychotherapist. He specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relationship issues.

Kerner has appeared on The Today Show, The Dr. Oz Show, and NPR[citation needed] and lectures frequently on topics related to sex and relationships. He is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists and is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and has lectured at New York University, Yale, Princeton and the Ackerman Institute.

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